Those aren't personality traits. Your father? Genealogy. PTSD and anxiety and the restraints, you didn't choose them and they aren't within your control so how could I hold them against you? To me, they are just part and parcel who you are. A package deal, as it were. And when added to everything else about you total an amazing man who I feel lucky to be with.
It's not like you're racist or chew with your mouth open or are selfish in bed. Those are unforgivable.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2020-07-25 03:05 am (UTC)The serial killer father, the PTSD, the anxiety, the having to sleep in restraints...
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Date: 2020-07-26 01:36 am (UTC)Those aren't personality traits. Your father? Genealogy. PTSD and anxiety and the restraints, you didn't choose them and they aren't within your control so how could I hold them against you? To me, they are just part and parcel who you are. A package deal, as it were. And when added to everything else about you total an amazing man who I feel lucky to be with.
It's not like you're racist or chew with your mouth open or are selfish in bed. Those are unforgivable.
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Date: 2020-07-26 02:28 am (UTC)[ She can't see how he's smiling. ]
I'm just saying that I get why your father wouldn't want you to see me.
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Date: 2020-07-26 10:16 pm (UTC)At least that's the argument I made that won him over. :)
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Date: 2020-07-30 01:07 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2020-07-30 09:28 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2020-07-31 02:18 am (UTC)